{"id":845,"date":"2025-06-25T15:35:11","date_gmt":"2025-06-25T15:35:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/echo.grabonic.com\/?p=845"},"modified":"2025-06-25T15:35:11","modified_gmt":"2025-06-25T15:35:11","slug":"how-to-lose-50-pounds-of-bad-dating-advice-by-carlyn-beccia-heart-affairs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/echo.grabonic.com\/?p=845","title":{"rendered":"How To Lose 50 Pounds of Bad Dating Advice | by Carlyn Beccia | Heart Affairs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div>\n<h2 id=\"bae0\" class=\"pw-subtitle-paragraph jy je jf bf b jz ka kb kc kd ke kf kg kh ki kj kk kl km kn cq dw\">Love is not a numbers game. It&#8217;s time to ditch the fast-food dating mentality.<\/h2>\n<div>\n<div class=\"speechify-ignore ac cp\">\n<div class=\"speechify-ignore bh m\">\n<div class=\"ac ko kp kq kr ks kt ku kv kw kx ky\">\n<div class=\"ac r ky\">\n<div class=\"ac kz\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"bm\" aria-hidden=\"false\">\n<div tabindex=\"-1\" class=\"be\">\n<div class=\"m la lb bx lc ld\">\n<div class=\"m fx\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Carlyn Beccia\" class=\"m fj bx by bz gi\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize%3Afill%3A64%3A64\/1%2A_tyrfjQ7mVi29Wj8ZE5gZg.jpeg?resize=32%2C32&#038;ssl=1\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" loading=\"lazy\" data-testid=\"authorPhoto\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><span class=\"bf b bg ab fs\"\/><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<figure class=\"pd pe pf pg ph pi pa pb paragraph-image\">\n<div role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" class=\"pj pk fx pl bh pm\">\n<div class=\"pa pb pc\"><picture><source srcset=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:640\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:720\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 720w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:750\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 750w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:786\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 786w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:828\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:1100\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 1100w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:1400\/format:webp\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 1400w\" sizes=\"(min-resolution: 4dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 4) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (min-resolution: 3dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 67vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 3) and (max-width: 700px) 65vw, (min-resolution: 2.5dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2.5) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (min-resolution: 2dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" type=\"image\/webp\"\/><source data-testid=\"og\" srcset=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:640\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 640w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:720\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 720w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:750\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 750w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:786\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 786w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:828\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 828w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:1100\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 1100w, https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/v2\/resize:fit:1400\/1*FuLyyzCFbNHYCCIAPTRRKQ.jpeg 1400w\" sizes=\"(min-resolution: 4dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 4) and (max-width: 700px) 50vw, (min-resolution: 3dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 67vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 3) and (max-width: 700px) 65vw, (min-resolution: 2.5dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2.5) and (max-width: 700px) 80vw, (min-resolution: 2dppx) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, (-webkit-min-device-pixel-ratio: 2) and (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\"\/><img alt=\"\" class=\"bh gj pn dt\" width=\"700\" height=\"1050\" loading=\"eager\" role=\"presentation\"\/><\/picture><\/div>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"po fl pp pa pb pq pr bf b bg ab dw\">Pexels | Photo by Karolina Grabowska<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p id=\"1956\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\"><em class=\"ql\">Please note: I am moving content over to Substack. If you would like to continue to read, visit <\/em><em class=\"ql\">Conversation with Carlyn<\/em><\/p>\n<p id=\"dbf3\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\"><em class=\"ql\">Warning: The following contains food puns that may be triggering if hungry.<\/em><\/p>\n<p id=\"39f4\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">Lately, grocery store shopping has become a harrowing experience. You pretty much have to sell a kidney to afford a bag of kidney beans.<\/p>\n<p id=\"c8d3\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">Of course, no one is fooled by this price gouging. Recent examinations by the FTC found that grocery stores claiming decreased profits due to supply chain problems are fibbing. There are no supply chain problems. Grocery stores have jacked up food prices simply because they can.<\/p>\n<p id=\"f7e2\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">Unfortunately, when you sell a product everyone needs, you can get away with overcharging customers. Obviously, everyone needs food.<\/p>\n<p id=\"89c2\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">Everyone needs love, too. Dating apps have also raised prices. Now, the basic monthly Hinge subscription costs $49.99.<\/p>\n<p id=\"e070\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">When food prices rise, people experiencing poverty are hurt the most. Healthy eating is always more expensive.<\/p>\n<p id=\"57d3\" class=\"pw-post-body-paragraph pt pu jf jg b jz pv pw px kc py pz qa hb qb qc qd he qe qf qg hh qh qi qj qk ib fs\">Healthy dating will cost you more, too. Forget the monthly app fees. Finding love takes time\u2014more time\u2026<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/heart-affairs\/how-to-lose-50-pounds-of-bad-dating-advice-9d25521c53d1\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Love is not a numbers game. It&#8217;s time to ditch the fast-food dating mentality. Pexels | Photo by Karolina Grabowska Please note: I am moving content over to Substack. If you would like to continue to read, visit Conversation with Carlyn Warning: The following contains food puns that may be triggering if hungry. 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